Tell me where it hurts.
Note: If the shoe fits, I'm sorry. This is not to offend anyone, because if it does, tell me. Don't go around complaining to my family or anyone close to me. If you got an issue, just talk to me as I'm the idiot who wrote this. Not them. Me. Okay?
I have come to realise how fickle people are. I was watching A Knight's Tale (the mother-lah wanted to watch, I just sat there because I had nothing to do) and I got mad when it came to this part.
The princess asks the guy to recite sweet words (the words he used in his letter to her) and he couldn't and she kept asking him to do it and he started saying how "her breasts are below her throat" (I have bad memory-lah, so those weren't the exact words). Then she gets mad and tells him that if he loves her, he must lose the match, which at first he protested, but subsequently carried out. And then, the servant tells him that the princess said that if he loves her, he must win. He went on to win.
If I were the guy, I would ask her "What is wrong with you? One minute you want me to lose, the next you want me to win! Can't you make up your mind?".
And I have realised that people in love can be quite fickle. Take my beloved 16 years for example. Her long-suffering boyfriend always tells me he confused.
"I don't know what to do. She tells me not to come, so I stay. And then she gets mad at me for not coming. And when I come, she tells me to go, and then asks me to stay. I am so confused"
I can never understand these two, but I adore them.
How's this for one?
Girl meets boy.
Both fall madly in love with each other.
Boy breaks up with girl.
Girl is heartbroken and sees her best friend, who is a guy.
Best friend (who secretly has feelings for girl) comforts her.
Girl realises she likes her best friend more than just a best friend and falls in love.
Both are happily in love.
Then, boy comes back and asks girl for a second chance.
Girl leaves best friend and goes off with boy, only to be hurt again.
Sounds familiar? It happened to me before. Only thing was I was the best friend. So yeah, been there done that.
It is sad. There are people who never realise the right one is, more often than not, standing in front of them. Worse still, is when you tell someone you love them, but it falls on deaf ears.
I once asked the Scouser would she fall in love a total stranger or her own friend. She said her own friend. Well, I can understand why she said that. It would be better because you knew who he was.
But would you risk that friendship? If things didn't work out, could you still look at each other as friends?
Maybe. That's what she says.
Me? I could fall in love with my friend and stay friends with him if nothing worked out. I could, not I can. That's what the boy and I promised after our split.
I could fall in love with a perfect stranger (I'm referring to that INXS song, okay? No stranger or person is perfect. I know that) and even if he hurt me, I could be friends with him.
But in the case of my last ex, I said I want to remain friends, but he said something that meant along the lines of "I love you too much that I can't have you as a friend". Now you understand why we're not on good terms with each other.
I am not in love and I'm so confused. Hopefully when I fall in love, I am not confused as I am now (I am always confused so it would prove to be a bit hard-lah).
Because when I fall in love, I fall hard. And it's bad.
And I could use it to fix my CD Walkman too. I can't play my CDs properly. I think I flung my bag too hard on the chair. I think. That was before I washed clothes to release my anger. I know-lah I'm violent, my friends were worried I'd chase boys off like that because of that ugly temper -.-"
Why is my power to jinx footballers/Lewis Hamilton???
I don't understand. A war-torn country can play better football than a country that has ENOUGH food, electricity, water and facilities! We don't even have wars going on!
What is wrong???
I'm so confused. Can some knowledgeable being clear my mind on this?
The Way I Are - Timbaland.
You ain't gotta flaunt for me...
I have this song on my phone and I love it! That stupid boy sang this on his birthday. Haha. It was so hilarious =p
I have come to realise how fickle people are. I was watching A Knight's Tale (the mother-lah wanted to watch, I just sat there because I had nothing to do) and I got mad when it came to this part.
The princess asks the guy to recite sweet words (the words he used in his letter to her) and he couldn't and she kept asking him to do it and he started saying how "her breasts are below her throat" (I have bad memory-lah, so those weren't the exact words). Then she gets mad and tells him that if he loves her, he must lose the match, which at first he protested, but subsequently carried out. And then, the servant tells him that the princess said that if he loves her, he must win. He went on to win.
If I were the guy, I would ask her "What is wrong with you? One minute you want me to lose, the next you want me to win! Can't you make up your mind?".
And I have realised that people in love can be quite fickle. Take my beloved 16 years for example. Her long-suffering boyfriend always tells me he confused.
"I don't know what to do. She tells me not to come, so I stay. And then she gets mad at me for not coming. And when I come, she tells me to go, and then asks me to stay. I am so confused"
I can never understand these two, but I adore them.
How's this for one?
Girl meets boy.
Both fall madly in love with each other.
Boy breaks up with girl.
Girl is heartbroken and sees her best friend, who is a guy.
Best friend (who secretly has feelings for girl) comforts her.
Girl realises she likes her best friend more than just a best friend and falls in love.
Both are happily in love.
Then, boy comes back and asks girl for a second chance.
Girl leaves best friend and goes off with boy, only to be hurt again.
Sounds familiar? It happened to me before. Only thing was I was the best friend. So yeah, been there done that.
It is sad. There are people who never realise the right one is, more often than not, standing in front of them. Worse still, is when you tell someone you love them, but it falls on deaf ears.
I once asked the Scouser would she fall in love a total stranger or her own friend. She said her own friend. Well, I can understand why she said that. It would be better because you knew who he was.
But would you risk that friendship? If things didn't work out, could you still look at each other as friends?
Maybe. That's what she says.
Me? I could fall in love with my friend and stay friends with him if nothing worked out. I could, not I can. That's what the boy and I promised after our split.
I could fall in love with a perfect stranger (I'm referring to that INXS song, okay? No stranger or person is perfect. I know that) and even if he hurt me, I could be friends with him.
But in the case of my last ex, I said I want to remain friends, but he said something that meant along the lines of "I love you too much that I can't have you as a friend". Now you understand why we're not on good terms with each other.
I am not in love and I'm so confused. Hopefully when I fall in love, I am not confused as I am now (I am always confused so it would prove to be a bit hard-lah).
Because when I fall in love, I fall hard. And it's bad.
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I wish I had Micah's powers now. My stupid hairdryer has gone wonky. It's giving out cold air and it is weird to dry my hair with cold air. Seriously.And I could use it to fix my CD Walkman too. I can't play my CDs properly. I think I flung my bag too hard on the chair. I think. That was before I washed clothes to release my anger. I know-lah I'm violent, my friends were worried I'd chase boys off like that because of that ugly temper -.-"
Why is my power to jinx footballers/Lewis Hamilton???
*****
Oh wow. 5-0. I didn't watch the game because I thought it was at 8:30 PM!I don't understand. A war-torn country can play better football than a country that has ENOUGH food, electricity, water and facilities! We don't even have wars going on!
What is wrong???
I'm so confused. Can some knowledgeable being clear my mind on this?
*****
Currently listening to:The Way I Are - Timbaland.
You ain't gotta flaunt for me...
I have this song on my phone and I love it! That stupid boy sang this on his birthday. Haha. It was so hilarious =p
Labels: anger, football, friends, jinx, lewis hamilton, madness, memories, random, sad, self
posted by Anodynous Roxy at
00:34
5 Comments:
your boy meets girl story is so true.
although i've never been the best friend. but i have several friends whom i've stopped talking to because they've confessed "i've been in love with you all along" kind of nonsense to me. and i just couldn't take it lah. but that was high school.
and the saddest part is. what starts in high school doesnt end there. people bring this cliched, stale scenario practically everywhere. because it happens over and over again (not to me lah, of course) and honetsly, DONT PEOPLE GET SICK OF THIS INDECISIVENESS?
i mean, loads of people are gonna get hurt and it's not even fun. people. they just want drama in their lives. it's pathetic
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-aimee
@ Aimee - It's happening way too often-lah.
It's sad-lah. I wouldn't risk the friendship. I cannot understand why people are so indecisive and irrational. They should be able to think clearly-lah right?
So much drama. It's sad to see so many parties getting hurt because of one person's indecisiveness.
You eejit! Why must quote him as "her long-suffering boyfriend"?
You know why I said that right? It wasn't because I was irrational (well, in a way, yes, but that's not my point!). You remember I had an issue with the "long-suffering boyfriend".
Which you fixed. We can't thank you enough.
Anyways, he's not that much of a long-suffering boyfriend. 4 years counts or not? Oh I forgot the number of years we knew each other, which is 15 years. Wah...I know you longer wei!
But you know what, I finally understand how he felt when I was dating the other guys. This post is so much of a reflection of our lives.
Errm...bout the best friend part...it's something to do with the LaLa's ex right?
But she didn't break his heart what. We all know the true story.
Wonky donkey and her wonky hairdryer! HAHAHA! Pitiful thing.
Eh Mark Owen best tak? =p
@ Mar Adams - Dai sei! Hahahaha! Sorry-lah. I know, I was just quoting him. Besides you know how long he's suffered to be with you, right?
I know the issue and I am glad you two fixed it, I didn't do much except poke some sense into your head.
Me and him have the same problem. It is so true in our lives right? So very the drama-lah we all.
Well, the best friend's part was bout LaLa, me and her ex. But the "girl meets boy" issue is nothing to do with her, him or me. It's to do with something else. She knows it too.
Don't laugh la...stupid hairdryer had to die on me like that =(
OMG MAR!!! Must ask the question here ah? HAHAHAHAHA! He's freaking good-lah. I like Gravity. You leh?
GRAVITY!!! Gila best. I love that song! Eh when you get bf right, ask him to sing this song. Damn romantic wei!
Alone Without You is awesome too. I know you like =D
Love you lots, eejit!!!
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